Life After Sex And Gender:
Personal Identity In The New Millennium
by Lisa Lees

These are my notes for the seminar I gave in the Iowa Room of the Michigan State University Student Union Building at noon on 16 September 1999.

Overview - beyond sex and gender

I'm not suggesting we will wake up on January 1st and find that our bodies all look the same, or that we will all begin behaving like clones.

Rather I suggest almost the opposite. We are becoming aware that our bodies differ in ways that can not easily be covered using the two simple categories male and female; the gender roles masculine and feminine do not suffice; queer encompasses much more than homo-sexuality; and the social roles of man and woman become less well defined every day.

The myth has been that the categories of male and female suffice to cover everyone except the occasional trickster (which is how many people think about a person like Billy Tipton, who lived in the 'opposite' gender and social role without the use of medical technology to transform his body) and 'transsexuals' who do alter their bodies to support the gender and role in which they wish to live.

Our culturally-enforced ignorance of other bodies, and our fear and intolerance for individual difference has made these sex and gender myths sustainable.

But in the past few years the stories that are being told by intersexed people and by gender queers are exploding the idea that there is even a line to cross between what has been called male and female and masculine and feminine.

Intersex and gender-queer isn't all we have been silent about as a culture. Puberty. Pregnancy. Illness. Accident. Age. These all change our bodies, our genders, our social roles, and our sexualities. And we've kept mum about it all.

Why is the silence beginning to break?

Lifting the silence

What's lifting the silence is access to information. Hundreds of cable and satellite television channels, the Internet, the World Wide Web, and an e-book publishing boom just on the horizon.

Individual voices may now be heard, in private, from anywhere on the planet. Communities need no longer be limited by geographic boundaries. And perhaps most importantly, the individual remains in control of their identity.

Yes, there is some economic elitism about access to this new technology, but on the other hand, this may be the first time in history that a new information technology has not been controlled by the state or by the priesthood.

This is new and it is blowing up in our faces. When I began using email in 1978, there was no Internet. I was a charter subscriber in 1986 to the first transgender discussion list. When I put up a web page about transsexuality in 1995, it was one of the few such pages in the world.

As of last Sunday, the Alta Vista search engine found 542,780 web pages containing the word 'transsexual'. My own web pages have registered hundreds of thousands of hits since I put them up, typically four or five hundred per week. I receive email from all over the world. This is like nothing that has ever happened before.

Some other web page counts: 'intersex' = 3,767; 'bisexual' = 1,282,788; 'lesbian' = 5,666,647; 'gay' = 11,257,708.

Medical technology

Something else that is changing rapidly is medical technology. Remember, antibiotics and hormones were discovered in this century. We cannot imagine what medical technology will enable in the next century, let alone the next thousand years!

Public perception of acceptable use of medical technology is also changing rapidly. Reproductive technology and cosmetic technology are becoming accepted. It hasn't sunk in yet, but this further stretches the old definitions of male and female.

Here's an example. Lansing CityLimits magazine regularly runs this ad. A photo of an ample-breasted woman in a bathing suit, with the text: "I could have worn padded swimsuits. I could have learned to live with what I had. I had breast enlargement surgery instead. You decide how to look your best."

Has anyone read the science fiction novel Babel 17, by Samuel R. Delany? In the future society it depicts, truly cosmetic surgery is as easy and common as tattoos are now. We will see such truly cosmetic surgery in the next millennium.

What changes are we going to see?

Predicting the future is folly, but here we go. As we change from a society of identities into a society of individuals, I look for at least these changes:

How is this going to happen?

There are people who desire some of these changes. Other changes will follow as a result of the flow of information. Some specific things I see happening in the short term are:

Discussion

We had some interesting discussion about how and by whom new technology will be regulated, virtual identities and virtual communities, the difference between face-to-face interaction and interaction via email, and to what extent (if any) a person is grounded in their physical body. I had fun!

Bibliography

Phyllis Burke. Gender Shock: Exploding The Myths of Male and Female. 1996. Doubleday. ISBN 0-385-47718-X.
Burke does an excellent job of exposing the cultural hocus pocus of gender and the enormous damage done to children and families in the name of gender conformity.
Patrick Califia. Sex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism. 1997. ISBN 1-57344-072-8. Cleis Press, P.O. Box 14684, San Francisco CA 94114.
"Who would you be if you had never been punished for gender-inappropriate behavior, or seen another child punished for deviation from masculine or feminine norms, or participated in dishing out such punishment?"
Alice Domurat Dreger, editor. Intersex in the Age of Ethics. 1999. University Publishing Group. ISBN 1-55572-100-1.
Sections: Intersex as a Social Phenomenon; Living, Learning, and Loving with Intersex; Changing Perspectives of the Clinic; What to Do Now.
Judith Halberstam. Female Masculinity. 1998. Duke University Press. ISBN 0-8223-2243-9.
"This book has not only been a philosophical inquiry into the whys and wherefores of female masculinity; it is also a seriously committed attempt to make masculinity safe for women and girls."
Frankie Hucklenbroich. a Crystal Diary. 1997. Firebrand. ISBN 1-56341-082-6.
"Strong and handsomely written." A very down-to-earth first person narrative of growing up and living butch.
Holly Hughes and David Román, editors. O Solo Homo: The New Queer Performance. 1998. Grove Press. ISBN 0-8021-3570-6.
Work by Luis Alfano, Tanya Barfield, Kate Bornstein, Craig Hickman, Holly Hughes, Michael Kearns, Alec Mapa, Susan Miller, Tim Miller, Peggy Shaw, Carmelita Tropicana, Denise Uyehara, and Ron Vawter. Fab!
Suzanne J. Kessler. Lessons From The Intersexed. 1998. Rutgers. ISBN 0-8135-2530-6.
The chapter titles are: The medical construction of gender, Defining and producing genitals, Evaluating genital surgery, Questioning medical management, and Rethinking genitals and gender. Lots of personal stories.
Diane Wood Middlebrook. Suits Me: The Double Life of Billy Tipton. Houghton Mifflin. 1998. ISBN 0-395-65498-0.
Billy Tipton was a renowned musician who lived as a man for 55 of his 74 years. Tipton left no memoir and never discussed his feelings about gender identity or sexuality. [This book is about Billy Tipton, not about gender identity, and some trans people are not pleased with the author's slant on some aspects of Tipton's life.]
Allucquère Rosanne Stone. The War of Desire and Technology at the Close of the Mechanical Age. 1996. The MIT Press. ISBN 0-262-69189-2.
Sandy Stone is Assistant Professor and Director of the Interactive Multimedia Lab at the University of Texas at Austin. The essays in this book are a good place to begin an exploration of the concepts of virtual identity.
Caitlin Sullivan & Kate Bornstein. Nearly Roadkill: An Infobahn Erotic Adventure. 1996. High Risk Books. ISBN 1-85242-418-4.
A novel about virtual identities, and how they intersect in the 'real' world.

For many more titles and links, constantly updated, see my resource page.

Biography

Lisa is a co-parent of two home-educated children, a writer, the president of a community theater company, an amateur makeup artist, and a systems analyst and technical writer in the Department of Computer Science & Engineering.

Lisa has spoken to a number of classes and units on campus, writes for anything and anyone, has a chapter in Ronni Sanlo's book Working with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender College Students: A Handbook for Faculty and Administrators,[*] has several other irons in the fire, and puts a lot of stuff up on several web sites.

Lisa generally dislikes labels, but is not totally disgusted with 'post-transsexual' used in the sense of defining one's own body, gender, and sexuality not necessarily in alignment with anything anyone else seems to be doing.

Any pronouns you just heard were either supplied by the person doing the introduction, or by your own head.

* The working title for that book (in 1996) did not include the term 'transgender', now that is unthinkable.

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